I can understand that sentiment. The hardest thing to do when you've been badly hurt is to let anyone back in again. But it is also part of the healing process. I wouldn't suggest that you seek love, but I do suggest that you not close yourself off. Take you own time and space. Be good to yourself first and foremost. Be selfish in protecting yourself. And, if anyone wants you, let them pursue you and only reciprocate if you can see all of them. It will allow you control and safety in the situation.
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