[Post 050] Anonymous Text

[francia]

Need help regarding love, potential relationships, and the like? Ask here.

[A very simple premise with ulterior motives. France will, however, answer all the questions seriously because love, in his opinion, should always be taken seriously no matter how big or how small.]

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[francia]

This person that you have become and are becoming: this is the person that they love. No one is a stagnant being; we all evolve and change depending on our motivations and desires. You're doing something amazing: you're trying to be someone better than the person who did terrible things. You're doing it for them, and I'm certain this isn't lost on the person you love. It takes phenomenal effort to change ourselves even a little bit, and I wouldn't be surprised if seeing this in you is part of why the person you love thinks you're wonderful.

Even if the person you used to be is someone you don't think they could love, that isn't who you are anymore. You're something else now, and they'll understand that even if they were to find out what you were before. They will not stop loving you.

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[exeggutorhead]

[It takes a while for Envy to reply back, while he thinks all that over.]

how would I even bring this up to them?

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[francia]

I would suggest taking the person you love somewhere comfortable and private and telling them the truth. Tell them the truth in the plainest of terms. Tell them you are telling them the truth because you love them and you want them to know. They will respect you for this honesty, and respect and honesty goes a long way to facilitating understanding.