[Post 050] Anonymous Text

[francia]

Need help regarding love, potential relationships, and the like? Ask here.

[A very simple premise with ulterior motives. France will, however, answer all the questions seriously because love, in his opinion, should always be taken seriously no matter how big or how small.]

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anonymous

[heartofmetal]

I do want to confess again. I finally realized my feelings and I want us to be together. I'm just not sure how. The first time was rather improvised.

And that... I'm from the future so telling that would be kind of logical, but then it would be kind of awkward. Especially if I tell first. It would sound like "Hey, we should start dating since we already did" kind of thing, you know?

I don't even know how she felt for me, at the point where she's from.

anonymous

[francia]

It would be kind of awkward if you put it that way because it assumes that there is a current, foregone conclusion. A better way to approach the situation would be to say something along the lines of, "We dated in my relative past. I would like to date you now, but I would like to know what you think. Please ask me whatever you want to know." It's important that you show that you're open to helping the person you love understand where you are and that you're equally interested in knowing where they are.

anonymous

[heartofmetal]

That sounds reasonable. Though also pretty embarrassing to say... I'm mot vety good at this kind of talk.